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Do the traumatic things of our pasts effect how we live the rest of our lives? Are men that much more different than women? Why do men decide to bottle things and women let them run like a broken faucet? Have we fallen into such a stereotypical judgment of ourselves that we HAVE to follow the trend? What would women think if the man decided to share what troubled him? These are just a few questions that burden my thoughts and thus I believe burdens how I dream. but, to counter these thoughts is it safe to say that the opposite could be said as well?

Posted by: Namathorn Sat Mar 21, 2009 @ 04:05am

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Commented on: Sat Mar 21, 2009 @ 07:42am


	The sad answer to the first question is yes, it can. We would like it very much, by the way, if a guy decided to share what troubled him. Some of us make very good counselors.

Commented on: Sat Mar 21, 2009 @ 07:45am


	and do you think I am troubled?

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Commented on: Sat Mar 21, 2009 @ 08:09am


	You tell me. If you are, then you hide it well.

Commented on: Sat Mar 21, 2009 @ 08:11am


	maybe I am. but I don't want to burden you until I figure out how to deal with it.

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Commented on: Sat Mar 21, 2009 @ 08:28am


	That's my problem too, so I think we're even, and besides, I think by now we pretty much know everything about the other person. So I'm sure you know, therefore, that I can handle whatever it is.

Commented on: Sat Mar 21, 2009 @ 08:31am


	I know, your like the image I see in a mirror. strong and always there when I look.(plus I bet your butt isn't too bad to look at either wink )

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Commented on: Sat Mar 21, 2009 @ 08:33am


	Hah! I wouldn't know about that! But you're still not going to tell me, are you?

Commented on: Sat Mar 21, 2009 @ 08:39am


	not yet....its not a big thing. well maybe. alright. I went to put my check in the bank I found out I had an extra 200 dollars in my account and I didn't know where it came from. I know it sounds silly but I could have sworn there was MUCH LESS than that when I last checked.

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Commented on: Sat Mar 21, 2009 @ 08:43am


	Do you keep decent account records? It would be pretty easy to figure out if you do. (Although, no offense, I'm guessing not.) You could always ask the banker people or something if it bothers you that much.

Commented on: Sat Mar 21, 2009 @ 08:45am


	I have been keeping a pretty decent record of my account, especially for the past few months. I have been expecting a check so maybe it was that?

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Commented on: Sat Mar 21, 2009 @ 08:49am


	Good! Ah, see, then problem probably solved. Do you remember how much it was supposed to be? Probably 200. nods sagely

Commented on: Sat Mar 21, 2009 @ 08:52am


	no I don't remember but I will call the bank and see to find out once and for all. Thank God for a woman's touch on life's road bumps.

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Commented on: Sat Mar 21, 2009 @ 08:56am


	That would be a good thing to do. Very mature. = ] Mmm, but we make them sometimes too. lol.

Commented on: Sat Mar 21, 2009 @ 09:04am


	yeah you do. and it's much more entertaining to watch you fret over them. smile

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Commented on: Sat Mar 21, 2009 @ 09:08am


	Hey! I'm...supposed to...resent that, you know. You aren't the only one who gets amused though.

Commented on: Sat Mar 21, 2009 @ 09:12am


	I'll agree with you on that. All's fair in love and war I suppose.

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Commented on: Sat Mar 21, 2009 @ 09:40am


	Absolutely. I'm glad we agree. = ]

Commented on: Sat Mar 21, 2009 @ 09:44am


	=] just tell me if a message is too far (you know what I mean)

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Commented on: Sat Mar 21, 2009 @ 09:53am


	Oh, I will. No worries there. Same goes for you.

Commented on: Sat Mar 21, 2009 @ 09:55am


	I give you my word. wink

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Commented on: Sat Mar 21, 2009 @ 10:01am


	Good man. = ]

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